How to stop a a vain person from crying

Don't cry! you look ugly when you cry. If you thing that will work, naaah it didn't really work on me.

My grandmother passed  away yesterday, I just decided not to go home 30minutes ago. Don't ask me why but a rational person in my state wouldn't go home as well. I know it sounds kurang ajar to say this and not that i don't have respect for my grandmother, actually I do respect and love her but the thing is even if I come back to Brunei it would be too late and there's nothing that i can do. So yeah..I'll just give her my distant prayer. Al Fatihah.